We all know an accessory can make or break an outfit.

That’s not the worst thing the wrong accessories can do, though.

That’s something you may want to take into consideration when you choose your next pair of earrings.

woman wearing accessories

Big, heavy ones will only make that problem of sagging earlobes more obvious by pulling them down further.

Stylist Shaunya Hartley agrees.

“Earlobes are notorious for showing your age,” she toldThe Listabout the accessory.

woman wearing heavy earrings as an accessory

Very heavy earrings can pull on lobes as well as draw attention to the neck."

It definitely used to be a thing (remember that matching jewelry set you wore to prom?

“Avoid jewelry sets where the necklace matches exactly with the earrings (or other jewelry item).

woman wearing a jewelry set as accessories

After 40, it looks incredibly dated,” said stylist Diana Melencio ofQUINN Style.

“Instead, mix metals!

It’s modern, on-trend, and shows that you’re current.”

mixed metal bracelets as accessories

“Gold versus silver, while a personal choice, feeds into whether you havea warm or cool undertone.

Not sure which kind of complexion you have?

Thishandy how-tocan help you figure it out.

brooch accessory

Ladies with cool tones should opt for silver, while those with warmer complexions look better in gold.

Instead, she recommends you use that gorgeous piece of jewelry to fasten your cardigan.

You’ll still get to put it on display, but in a trendy, less grandmotherly way.

Dr. Martens boots as an outfit accessory

“Comfy footwear does not have to look dumpy,” said stylist Shaunya Hartley.

She recommends brands likeAerosolesandWaldlauferfor finding shoes that still look chic while keeping your feet from aching.

You do need to see, right?

pearls as an accessory

“Do a single sequins piece per outfit to avoid looking older and dated,” she said.

So, if you were considering wearing a dress that was largely embellished with sequins, maybe think again.

Celebrity stylist and vintage curatorTohni Jean Bellissaid overly-designednailsshould be left to thegirls in their teensand early 20s.

clunky shoes as an accessory

“These are fun to look at and admire on a younger woman.

I never want to look any age.

I just want to look good.”

glasses as an accessory

Words to live by!

This small detail can actually provide a ‘lifting’ effect and help draw the eye up.”

That’s because of the way this accessory can emphasize your bust.

woman wearing sequined shirt

“Also, watch out for dresses with waist seams,” she continued.

Try it lower."

That way you’re able to avoid the same pitfall.

rack of vintage clothing and accessories

“Don’t over contour,” she shared withThe List.

That’s certainly not the effect you want!

Just ensure not to overdo it!

overly designed nails on a woman as an accessory

“Hats should be fresh and current,” she toldThe List.

“They’re best to be paired with jeans and a t-shirt versus a suit or structured dress.”

“Choose a basic black or brown.

gold hoop earrings as accessories

“I find that the older we get the larger our handbags become.

We throw everything in there ‘just in case.'”

They won’t weigh you down visually or physically.”

A woman wearing glasses at her laptop

“Stay away from small silk scarves tied around the neck,” she shared withThe List.

“Instead, add the pattern and color pop to your bag.

That way, it doesn’t look like you’re trying to hide your neck with the accessory.

A woman’s hands holding the belt at her waist

Bachelier also added that wearing a scarf in this way is an easy way to amp up your outfit.

“It instantly adds visual interest to your business or everyday looks,” she continued.

“Change the scarf for any given season or occasion.”

Two women wearing contouring makeup

A woman trying on hats as accessories

A woman carrying a small handbag as an accessory

A woman with a scarf around her neck