Emilie Ullerup and Kyle Cassie waited nearly 10 years after they started dating to make their relationship wedding official.

Although it may seem like a nontraditional relationship timeline, Ullerup doesn’t think anything of it.

In anInstagram postexplaining their relationship, she detailed her views on how love should be.

Kyle Cassie and Emilie Ullerup smiling

“There is no right way to do love.

There is only your way.

We couldn’t have imagined doing it any sooner.”

Emilie Ullerup and Kyle Cassie posing

“Happy Father’s day,” she wrote.

“You are more incredible at this than I ever would have dared to imagine.

Thank you for showing up like you do, Wilde & his Mor.”

Emilie Ullerup and Kyle Cassie playing with their children

Your love, dedication, creativity, patience and humor is the foundation of this little family.

Oh and thx for that birthing thing, that looked uncomfortable."