Being the president and first lady of the United States takes a toll on a marriage.

It also affected their closeness, leading to a loneliness that kept him awake at night.

He recounted reminiscing about the days when their relationship was easier and smiles were more frequent.

Former President Barack Obama and former First Lady Michelle pose for a picture

So, asking for a friend, how do you get back in good graces again?"

Barack Obama also touched on the subject in an interview withPeoplein November 2020.

Just us and our dreams," she explained.

Barack Obama and Michelle pointing at a crowd

She sweetly added that they are “finding each other again.”

Leaving their roles as president and first lady also allowed them to take vacations.

After Donald Trump officially became president, the Obama family vacationed in Palm Springs for much-needed family time.

Barack Obama and Michelle Obama talking

After this, Michelle and Barack took another private vacation in the British Virgin Islands.

This romantic getaway allowed them to recapture some of their magic through shared activities like swimming and conversing.

It also gave them room to catch up on some activities previously restricted during Barack Obama’s presidency.

For example, due to safety concerns, Barack had been barred from surfing while in office.