And for J.Lo, she’s also learned some invaluable lessons for herself along the way.

All of it made me who I am and got me to where I am today.

Ben wants me to understand my worth and know my value.

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Their partnership has also reinforced their dedication to family, which Lopez has saidbrings tears to her eyes.

Both Lopez and Affleck have children from previous marriages.

Lopez had twins Max and Emme with her ex-husband Marc Anthony.

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Affleck had three children with his ex-wife, Jennifer Garner: Violet, Seraphina, and Samuel.

He is honestly the best dad I have ever seen.

On her subscription-only website “On the JLo,” Lopez wrote, “We did it.

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And it turns out love is patient.

Twenty years patient,” (viaNPR).