To many Americans,Barack and Michelle Obama’s stunning relationshiphas been the epitome of the perfect partnership.
It’s easy to see why they’ve been termed “couple goals.”
However, Michelle Obama has consistently challenged this title by openly discussing how tough marriages can be.

“There are some broken things that happen even in the best of marriages.”
Start there and then remember that’s who they are."
However, the mother of two revealed the reason for her honesty in a 2022 chat withNPR.

They quit before they’ve really played out the full scenario," she explained.
The former first lady’s concern is that people give up too quickly during tough periods in marriages.
Michelle has also challenged the narrative that marriages should be a perfect 50/50 balance.

“Marriage isn’t 50/50, ever.
We’ve been married for 30 years.
I would take ten bad years.
It’s just how you look at it.
People give up too easily.”
The former first couple has also generously shared tips that helped them work through the tough times.
On the other hand, one of Michelle’s essential tips is learning to communicate effectively.