At first glance, everything about their wedding seemed dreamy.

The ceremony took place in the seemingly picturesque colonial mansion from the hit rom-com “The Notebook.”

Reynolds addressed the blowback from the incident in aFast Companyinterview.

Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds at the Met Gala

What we saw after was a place built upon devastating tragedy."

It doesn’t mean you won’t f**** up again.

But re-patterning and challenging lifelong social conditioning is a job that doesn’t end."

Blake Lively posing for photos

As the actor detailed: “We talk about our bias, blindness, and our own mistakes.”

Having these conversations with her kids has not only educated them but also herself too.

Pinterest and Knot Worldwide also received a letter from the civil rights advocacy group, Color of Change.

Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds posing for photos