Some relationships can seem authentic, but there’s that underlying feeling that something is off.
But you might’t shake off that nagging feeling that there’s a lack of security in your relationship.
If this sounds familiar, you might be a placeholder in your relationship.
In some instances, a rebound relationship can look like a placeholder situation.
Here are some clues.
A relationship is like most living things around you it needs sustenance to live and grow.
In fact, this could potentially be one ofthe biggest dealbreakers in a relationship.
Instead, get on the single-and-ready-to-mingle paddle board and make waves."
In fact, this might bea relationship red flagwhen it comes to the placeholder situation.
“For a relationship to have a future, you should know the people in each other’s lives.
It’s the same story with family.
Meeting your partners' parents, siblings, etc.
You deserve someone who’s not afraid to introduce you to the important people in their life.
Even worse, every time you do get together, the focus is on sex.
Being a priority in your partner’s eyes is a sign that they are invested in the relationship.
It also means they value you and think you’re important.
That’s a person who is taking advantage of your time and energy.”
She’s good for the time being, though.'
It hurt on a visceral level."
They are working on the relationship.
And they are contributing to the relationship."
Why put in all that effort for someone who’s only stalling time before they move on?
If they sincerely value what they have, they might become more invested.
If they don’t, you’re better off without them.
