“That’s literally me going, ‘I’m not in love with him.

I’m not in love.’

The actor was quick to respond: “What a cool comment, thank you.

Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes paparazzi

But we don’t do those things together.”

In other words, at-home couple selfies and pictures of their daughters are a no-go.

AlthoughTaylor Swift and Joe Alwyn splitin 2023, they were barely seen together at all throughout their six-year-long relationship.

Eva Mendes Ryan Gosling posing at a premeire

And, with the exception of Swift’s song lyrics, they rarely commented on it either.

For this couple, it’s those behind-the-scenes moments that really count.

Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes posing at events