You also want to ask about allergies or restrictions.
Read: does not pair well with alcohol.
Spaghetti
Spaghetti was, by far, the most-hated date food.
Alexa Squillaro in NYC has another reason it’s a deal-breaker.
If you don’t know how to eat spaghetti silently, like don’t order this.
But actually maybe do, so I know not to go for date number two."
“Those with celiac disease are restricted to a 100 percent gluten-free diet, which makes eating out difficult!
Don’t be afraid to ask about gluten-free options.
Sure, it’s messy, but if your date is adventurous, go for it.
Be careful with Mexican, Thai, and Indian food.
Don’t be afraid to ask for the milder version.
She also encourages asking about thickeners in sauces, as they can be problematic.
Maybe save the curry for after you’ve gotten comfortable with each other.
To minimize the damage, cut it up as you go.
Ditto things like sauteed spinach, kale, chard, and other leafy stuff.
Don’t be embarrassed sending it back either it’s necessary.”
Celiac is a legit disease!
Trying to coordinate eating hot noodle soup do you use the spoons or the chopsticks?
“A large bowl of noodles can [also] cause a bloated belly,” she said.
Pairing a carbohydrate with protein can [also] help give you some energy without the crash."
Bananas, hot dogs, lollipops, ice cream cones…
Yep, we’re going there.
“You just don’t want to go there.
Do you put the whole thing in your mouth?
Do you do a little of each depending on what the situation calls for?
You know what I’m getting at.”
Squillaro also puts cannolis on the “c’mon don’t” list.
“On my worst first date ever, the guy insisted on getting cannolis for dessert in Little Italy.
He ordered three full-size cannolis to be exact.
After watching that, I had no desire to see what he must have been compensating for.”
Korean BBQ, fondue, and other things involving fire
File this one under kidding/not kidding.
Anything with an open flame should come with a note of caution.
Also be careful if you’re pairing this with alcohol or if your date (or you!)
has any daredevil tendencies or turns into a 10-year-old around fire.
The last thing you want is a nasty burn or for someone’s hair to go up in flames.
Hot, yes, but probably not the bang out of hot you’re going for.
That sugar high will be sharply followed by an energy crash not pretty.
ensure you get some protein in there.
Major red flag alert: beware the babe who drinks their dinner.
Nothing
Sharing food is a very intimate experience.
For most, having a meal with others is a common and easy way to socialize and connect.
Those who are reluctant to do this may be harboring some social issues or a troublesome relationship with food.
If you like them enough, ask about it, but otherwise just cut your losses and move on.
…but know there really are no rules
All that said, there really are no rules.
We’re all different and have our own unique preferences and personal deal breakers.
