I mean, have you ever been married to four dudes?"

Here’s what might not have been obvious about their music for their young fans in the ’90s.

“I wanted to punch A.J.

Backstreet Boys in 1996

’s lights out for a little while,” Kirkpatrick toldBillboard.

“I was dating a girl, I broke up with her and he started dating her.”

But the singer admitted that they settled things over beers before the dispute got physical.

Backstreet Boys in 1995

“I think boy band fights are in the same realm as hockey fights.

Now we’re really good friends,” Kirkpatrick explained.

The truth is that the beef was between the bands and their shared manager, Lou Pearlman.

AJ McLean and Nick Carter of Backstreet Boys with Joey Fatone and Lance Bass of NSYNC

But Pearlman brushed off their complaints, likening his decision to launching competitive soda brands or burger chains.

The lyrics were a stark departure from the band’s tame pop image up to that point.

However, this was quite the claim considering that the song peaked at No.

Backstreet Boys perform live

52 on the Billboard Top 100 and only stayed on the charts for six weeks.

Nick Carter was the youngest member at just 12 when he auditioned and 13 when the group was formed.

On the other end of the spectrum, Kevin Richardson was 21 when the group was formed.

Backstreet Boys in 2000

These days, the band members are all dads, and their age difference is no longer as noticeable.

“We don’t do that anymore.

We don’t do kip-ups anymore, when you’re laying on your back and kip-up.

Backstreet Boys in 1997

We don’t do splits anymore,” he explained.

What starts out as a simple love song drops into a chorus that confuses things.

Perhaps everyone has been wondering about the meaning of the song since it was released.

Backstreet Boys at MTV Music Awards in 1999

But Chrissy Teigen represented all of us when she finally questioned the confusing lyrics in a hilarious 2018tweet.

“He doesn’t wanna hear it because he is the one that wants it that way?

He wants to be the one to say it?

Backstreet Boys perform

Also what is ‘it’?”

Then, the official Backstreet Boys Twitter account weighed in on the conversation.

He underwent surgery to correct the condition in 1998 while the group was simultaneously performing at a frenetic pace.

Backstreet Boys perform at the MDA Show of Strength Telethon

Kevin Richardson explained in 2002.

And this just hurt Brian so much because he was like, ‘Dude, this is my heart.’

Thirty years later they continued to make a charitable impact.

Lou Pearlman smiling

All the while, he blamed the cost of running the band to explain the unaccounted-for income.

They also felt that letting management negotiate their tour ended up alienating fans with exorbitant ticket prices.

In 2021, AJ McLean admitted toBillboardthat the song is the band’s least favorite in their entire catalog.

Backstreet Boys receiving a Hollywood Star

“But now we know that it’s toxic for 5-year-olds,” McLean explained.

“I have an almost 5-year-old, I don’t want that for her.”

And to think, Nick Carter was only 17 when the song was released!