Some will tell you never to date a comedian…

In fact, comedians themselves will probably warn against it.

But Ali Wong and Bill Hader decided it was worth it.

Ali Wong smiling

Wong is responsible for one of the most beloved rom-coms of the last 10 years.

Keeping with the tradition, she was pregnant with her second child while taping “Hard Knock Wife.”

“It’s a very unconventional divorce,” the “Beef” star toldThe Hollywood Reporter.

Bill Hader and Ali Wong

He’s still her tour manager, in fact.

These days, there’s a “Single Lady” tour in the works for Wong.

Here’s what we know about their lowkey relationship.

Ali Wong on red carpet

Early on, they tried to keep things quiet.

“Only a small circle of A-list comedians [knew] and everyone was thrilled about it.

As one insider explained toUs Weekly, they’ve operated in similar circles for a while.

In an April 2023 conversation withCollider,Bill Hader casually referred to Wong as his girlfriend.

Although he didn’t mention her by name, his representatives later confirmed her identity.

“My girlfriend and I were just figuring out that I haven’t had a vacation in 10 years.

I went with her to San Francisco, but that doesn’t really count,” he shared.

In the following months, they were spotted holding hands and strolling around Los Angeles.

“It’s so weird.

I can’t even explain it.

I have never, ever been snapped by paparazzi until this year,” she toldVariety.

“They had spent so much energy hiding, and that defined the whole relationship.

According to the stand-up, her mom originally advised her not to get divorced.

She looked me in the eye and asked, ‘Can you just wait until I die?'”

(viaThe Hollywood Reporter).