And in a 2020Mediumblog post, the former President recalled when Dunham found out he was bullying a classmate.

And those who think about how others feel and avoid doing things that might hurt them.

‘So,’ she asked me, ‘which kind of person do you want to be?’

Stanley Ann Dunham

All these years later, her question still helps guide my decisions," Obama wrote.

Stanley Ann Dunham in Indonesia

Stanley Ann Dunham with Barack Obama